Thursday, November 19, 2015

16 Nov 2015 Teresa house selections

To day that is Monday 16th I had to stay back Kukoo and myself. I decided that we will go to hotel call Amar Vilas and have two two Samosa each.  It is very hot....... they do not try and keep it...... they have kept the raw samosas inside the fridge and when we are asking for it.  They fry it at that instant. It is very very delicious ...especially when you get hungry. The hot Samosa are like heaven sent.


Some of the teachers whi were staying back along with me, went on a another cheapie joint to have Chow mein. So after school got over, myself and Kaku sat in the car and went to the hotel came back. There after I was very busy. u c i am in Teresa house and I have to select the girls for the sports events which are now coming up. I have to select  girls for the following events 

1.hundred metres race juniors

2. 200 metres race juniors 

3. 400 metres race juniors and of course 

4. juniors relay race  


 then there were events like 

5. shot put 

6. highjump and 

7.Discuss throw 


Also we have to select the girls for seniors hundred metres 200 metres 400 metres and relay race many girls were there and they were very happy to see me. We have got two Sports instructors. Every morning we have to practice PT it is a Korean PT middle school. Children will be holding colourful fans in their hands. The last formation is of  4 flowers so there are four colours of fans. 


Today the main topic in the staff room was how to do PT with saree. Complaining teachers. ...especially those who have to stay back....used  very colourful language. It was funny to hear. ... also from teachers instructing other teachers how to avoid work. I feel very funny because I am here as I am bored at sitting in the house.


I came back home by 5 after which took for tennis and then went to the Samsung showroom to deposit my rent agreement and then back home to collect kukku. His  racquets safety guard was lost so I had to buy that as well.


One dealer of Partha is admitted in Max Hospital as he has a small tumor on the right side of the brain it is very astonishing how the life became dicey for the family in just one evening. Sometimes I think I should pray to God only because we don't have these troubles and thank him with the bottom of the heart. The operation went well. Yesterday we had gone to see him and while talking of diseases we got your know that the item son also had the worms problem.

Monday, June 29, 2015

Seattle ....Downtown

28th May 2015- 8th July 2015

27th May 2015

In Doon Partha and Goles had many a private moments together. 
They have gone for a walk and have decided to go in the morning as well. I have always felt that my presence has stopped the father daughter synergy as Goles and me……well we are close both me and Goles share .... now that I am out of the picture I am sure their innate goodness will come to the fore and then  they will be more close than ever (I hope) that is the case. 

Mil bade me a sickly farewell today she seemed upset... hope she gets well soon. I feel bad leaving her behind alone and recovering.
No one is staring at me
We slept most of the way and stopped at Cheetal Grande. Where we had a plate of pakodas and  tea. Kukku had a cold drink. We had a good time. I am wearing me new jeans and am feeling grand as no one is staring at me needlessly.

At the Airport the label said do not touch..... so naturally Kukku had to .......

 Also there was a meal at the Dubai Airport which i requested Kukku not to eat as we would be boarding the flight in 15 more minutes....but he just had to...

the grandest thing was to see Greenland near to the North Pole at 12 midnight
Lazy Days... Pro Sports is GRAND
I am now sitting in the pro sports club Basket ball  Arena where I am typing this mail. There are 8 courts here and it is amazing.  Generally Kukku and me try to play one vs one in basketball. I don't want to boast when I say I m good really good. . Only my fat and decreased stamina prevent me from beating Kukku high and dry. The skills I have are amazing I have even taken many shots from the 3 point circle and it is amazing what I can do. Generally after dropping Rohan for his FLB Atul drops us in the club and Tublu picks us up at 5 30 in the evening
Kukku has become a fan of Tublu as is is not surprising. ....She cooks the amazing pizza ... and gives him what he wants to eat. Kukku is asking me to be more like Tublu..... "dekho se Rohan ke koto aador kore. .. tum keno kore na..." of course she can't play b ball with him. I am skilled in many things. .... The same can't be said about Tublu who has trouble even catching a ball. Rohan sadly takes after her.... but we do have a lot of fun with our catch and catch games. 

5th June
There are so many nice things here which one should I write about. Let me tell you about the park called Idylwood Park.
It is a beautiful park which is near a lake called Shamamish Park. There are some wild animals .... Ducks.... Rabbits... squirrels which are as big as the rabbits... they are awfully tame and once you start feeding them they come to you in hordes they also look behind you to see if there are more in the bags behind you.  They are really sweet.

We feed the ducks shamelessly but one of Tublu's Co parents ( whose son Leopold goes to the same social class  like Rohan) called Inga said that one day when she was swimming she waded out of the water with Duck guano all over her hair. She may be wrong because there are Gulls and swans here too and she does not look like a guano specialist. But Tublu is really against feeding the poor ducks who come hopefully towards us.

Day before yesterday Atul taught us a new game with 4 ball red and blue.. And beat us fair and square of course as the game needed skills as in golf. We also play catch and catch. …also Atul and Kukku catch fish and throw them back in the water.
We tell the ducks frankly that it is because of Tublu that they are hungry today. They seem to understand and walk away showing their waddling backs at Tublu specifically. 
 One more thing there is a road we have to cross the road we have to press a button...before we cross the road and all the vehicles stop. It is amazing because all the vehicles are coming at a speed of about 70 miles approx 110 km and stop at once. .. it is a magic button. 

 There is a beautiful bench and table set where  I sit and read books that I have got from the library and I am so close to the lake that if a water skier or motor boat comes my way the water splashes on my feet. A Russian fisherman also shares the same spot with me... I reached there a few minutes late and he will be there already. ... ...  we both want the bench …but you see it is a public park so we can't claim dibs on that particular spot. I want it for the peace and tranquility it offers and he wants it as it is a good space to fish... however we can't publicly ask each other to move away but I am trying to scare away the fish and he is trying to make conversation silly details about fishing which I am not so keen to hear.
When Tublu comes back from office we go to the park at about 8 30 when it is still sunny and 50 push from the swing then ring a ring a roses then home dinner and the sleep. I watch Dexter and Tublu plays office office

15th June Seattle Downtown

On Saturday  we have decided to go do Seattle downtown.  It was fun. Atul dropped is there. The weather was nice and sunny. We had a lot of places we wanted to go to. There was a pop art museum. The PIKE market the space needle and the duck rides.
We could manage only two..
. The Duck ride

2.The space needle

3. Lunch at McDonald's

We reached there by 3:00 as we went to a mall Atul decided that he would rather have a peaceful day at his house . We did miss him but it is pain to be with Tublu alone as when they ale together as I do not want to be" kebab Mein Haddi" So I was pleased to have my sister all to myself for the day. Of course I had to compete with Kukku and Rohan . We first stood in line to get the ticket for Duck RIDE and then went to  space needle to get ticket for the ride up .It was for 9:30 PM, the duck ride was from 6:45 PM to 8:00PM.
We also met a girl who was form LSR and was here with her BF (a blonde) from another state university. We were in the same lines to get the tickets.

Rohan and Kukku played on the swings

The lunch at McDonald’s was a good. Though we had carried a bag from home but when we got to the car.
In the process of getting things from Costco we emptied the car and had no bag however we had a few goods from Costco (like more mega mall) cokes cans and wriggly chewing gum.
1. THE DUCK RIDE. It is an amphibious vehicle, which rides on roads and then gets converted to boat on the lake (Lake Union). We were in time for the duck ride. It was one of the best things I got to do this holiday. It was a conducted tour...there was a funny Captain Duck who told us of all the land marks.

a. There is a tunnel digger called Bertha who was spoiled and had gone for repairs. It is to be a tunnel under the Lake Union.

b. We also saw the pioneer market. . The 1st market in Seattle.
c. The 1st Starbucks also opened here. He made us say "Ka jing" whenever we crossed a Starbucks.  Rohan shouted star bucks.   
Capt Duck made us dance with hands on Disco music.... and whoop when we crossed other bystanders. Here are a few funny caps he wore on the wassap pictures. 

He also showed us pictures where the movie called “lonely in Seattle” was shot. We also saw a water plane take off and land.

that is me and Rohan beneath the Space needle in the park..... WOW
2. Space Needle :-The ride lasted about 1 hour after which we hurried to the space needle that was fun too we stood on a line there were three generation women in front of us. Kukku was told off for trying to push the lady of the younger generation and Rohan actually pushed her hard when she was moving slowly. It was so funny. He also took a wine glass and poured sprite for himself when we were not looking. Really that boy is sooooo funny. SPACE NEEDLE is a tall building and we go up on a lift. When we reached on the top there is a circle we just walk and see all parts of Seattle from a far off far as space hence the name Space needle.

Atul reached there to pick us up at about 10 and we had some time in the park when we enjoyed the swings and tall slides.  We reached home and had  grand dinner.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

A day of cribs ( 29th , November 2014)

1st there was gym

Then  Kukku was home  it was only 1.00pm. Automan Ajay told me that I have to get Kukku back from school till the annual function. This was very bad. Very bad automan. Daily till Dalan wala and back after gym. Very very bad automan .

Had bath. I could hear silly fights from the bath. Mil is whining about naughty kukku. Naughty kukku and bad mil. Very naughty and very very bad.

After bath went to the roof for sunning my wet hair . T hank God for good sun. Picked up and folded the clothes. They were still fighting.

Then had lunch of palak pane er,  chole and fish. It was bad fish. I could not eat whole so threw it away.

Partha called me wanted me to go to bank because naughty goles. GOLES finishes all money by the end of each month.
Very bad Goles .

I switched on navigator on phone because can't find my way there it took me to another ICICI Bank.  Bad phone. VERY BAD NAVIGATOR.

Then I called Partha who laughed at my traffic sense and told me the way. Naughty partga.

I also went to Bhusawal mesho's house to   enquire about medicine. He was not happy to see me because he does not like Sonju shouting at him. (Will explain later am having fun with all the bads).
Naughty Mesho.

Then went to bank and did the jobs now Goles will get 6000 on the 1st and 2000 for Fd will go on the 26th so money will be safe.

Came  home.  On the way bought gloves for Kukku. He was very naughty   in shop and was asking for leather gloves. Bad Kukku.

Then bought green tea. And 2 wollen socks for me. Woollen socks keep me warm. Brown   ones look like feet from far away.

Bought milk and curd. On the way saw a house where there was welding machine works going on asked him to wait and told Partha to hurry because I can't carry a big trunk there. Partha said it will be very late. Naughty partha... very naughty.

Came home and made tea and milk. Milk man's mother died so have to buy milk from the market till Tuesday . Kukku spilled the curd outside car. Very very naughty kukku.

Kukku  came home and opened the packet of bread very bad. Now  all the bread is open. Insects walk on open bread. Cockroaches eat open bread. We have to eat bread. Naughty and bad Kukku. We ate our tea and milk in silence. Mil wanted mudi. When I give mudi she wants chide . When I give her chide she wants biscuits. When I give her biscuits she wants mudi. Always complaining. Always always.... bad mil very very bad.

Then put soya chunks in a saucepan and started watching TV.  All are burnt and stuck to the saucepan. Bad me very very bad and careless. Very very careless.

Partha said he will get dinner from outside. But I said no I will cook. Hone cooked food has less calories and easy to digest. Outside food is rich and savoury. Partha was sad but no outside food.

After dinner Kukku slept . Partha and me went for a walk. Partha does on want to walk. He wants to sleep.

But I want walk so we go. We walk for 3 km. My cardio widget app is very good. Good App. Our speed is 11.50 min per km. It is good

11th December 2015

Happy birthday to you mummy. We are celebrating it too because today Gupta aunty is coming hopme and so is Venu. He has to go to the college i.e. UPS petroleum where he will collect his original certificates and he is very pleased about the same. I am pleased as well because I will also go there with him and have a great fun time driving through the beautiful scenic way. Gupta Aunty also wanted to come so she will be coming here today in the evening.

I got a notification from Flipkart that Vinni didi is sending me a popper... basically a pop corn maker which will come from there. for my anniversary.

There is another trip in the offing where in we (Avneesh and me) will go to Chandigarh on saturday i.e. the 13th and attend Mr. Devinder Singh farewell.  He has been the regional head in the Punjab area for a long time and his wife works in the Punjab and sind bank. We will go on saturday and after attending the farewell come back with Partha one day later i.e. Sunday.

well let me end Mil has gone to the hospital with Partha and so I am waiting for them to come back so that I can go Gymmng.

Anniversary 2015

The anniversary was very nice day and I thanked God for sending this great day my way. I share this  day with another colleague who has celebrated her 20th anniversary this year. Her son is in 12th and is a great swimmer.  He was also my student. They have taken a happy family picture with a small baby it is so funny all are laughing because of the small baby I will send you the picture.

On 6th evening we were on our walk as usual and as I was bored of the   same route daily

I told Partha that I wanted to take the FRI path but

Partha  reminded me of the leopard attacks on doonites.

I (the optimist) told him that   with our  combined weights we will be heavier than the poor carnivore and easily supress it.

Partha (the pessimist) replied that we will probably go to jail for harming a poor animal who is endangered.

I pointed out that it might be a good thing because....
We will spend some quality time with each other. With no cell phone.

P ... probably there are different jails for men and women remember we will be there for repenting.

S. .. In that case you might be in the same cell as Sallu who will be there for poaching charges.

Partha's cautious nature won and we took the same route BUT... I had told him to go in increased speed. So we burnt 314 calories at a speed of 11.43 min per km. Which was a new record for us.  Thanks to my gymming... The days puffing and panting in  Landore walks are over. Now Partha  huffs and puffs and tells me to slow down. I am more cruel than Partha because he was supportive and stopped many a time to make me catch up. I just laugh scornfully . No wonder God has not made me slim. With my beauty I would  be too vain.

In the afternoon we had Tahiri for lunch....but I had told all to eat cautiously as we had planned on a Muse dinner. It is a good restaurant here. Part of hotel Inderlok.. and their restaurant  MUSE of Inderlok   is good . Not a patch on Sayaji but ok. Their non veg section is good. Also mil loves chicken and mutton and fish. So she said she will treat us there. But when it was evening she was cold and she had a new dress which is a churidaar  an woollen kameez from Amartex .... It looks good but if you have slightly plump legs and mil has skinny legs plus plump body... when she bought it for herself I was skeptical but she insisted they were fashionable and in vogue.

But after wearing it she felt bad and after that she said we should go and that she is feeling too cold. She just made it  up as her fashn statement came to a naught. So we went.

I went to Tanishq   and bought the earrings. I liked many of them  but bought only one.

Deepa has made a scheme. She saves 5000 from salary   each month to Tanishq . . And after competing of 11 months tanishq pays the last installment . She has one daughter only so she is collecting   jewellery   for her wedding. Already she has collected 4 bangles, one earring and necklace set.last year she told me of it and said the collection are good and husband paid for the bangles along with her. ISHA her only  daughter is in 11th only.  Deepa plans to buy her a kamarband this year so she is depositing 10000 each month. She says the one she likes is about 3.5 . Poor Praveen her hubby  will  have to pay this year as well. But it is a smart thing she does because each year for the past 6 years she is buying jewellery. And she says shadi ke liye abhi bhi taiyari nahi hui hai.

Well job  to mile phir main bhi shuru karoon.

We went to Allen Solley showroom and kukku and Partha bought jackets for themselves. PARTHA got ABG discount of 1500 still had to pay 8000 for the  jackets .

Then Kukku wanted to eat burgers and we went to McDonald's  and bought dinner for 350 bucks only.

Kukku had a meal I had a soft serve and egg burger. Partha had a veg burger. And Kukku had a full meal.

Mummy who was expecting food from Muse would be disappointed   with Kolkata kitchen rolls. Still ... we went there it was closed so we went to another expensive joint and bought food worth 2 people there was Sikh kebab and kathi rolls and tandoori fish.

Still I told Partha to be ready for critical  feedback. And we got just that.  The roti were like rubber. The fish was semi cooked and there was no chicken in the Kathi   rolls.

Well life is like that.  However the day of surprises was not over Partha had bought chocolates which I could ill afford to eat. Still I had 3 blocks. It is caramel Dairy milk silk and was super yummy but very sweet. When you stop eating refined sugar all sweets appear toooo sweet.

Kukku had made a card.

22 nd November 2015

We are in test mode now. KUKKU had his FA 3 examinations.  If you want to know what it means. .. It is Formative assessment. We are still in test mode.  Kapil Sibal has tried do hard to change the mind set of the parents but still we are the children for the marks that they give us. It is sad. But the US system he argues is better but they do not put stress on the kids to study which makes them less.

Shekhar Bhaiya says that the kids can't come to India any more because they cannot cope with the amount of studies that kids here have to do. What are the stress levels that kids  face out of India? ?. I feel that Rohan has one on one tutors and as a result must be less stressed than the average American child.

Our clock is ticking according to the tests that Kukku has to take. Here we study in the balcony and the road a front of us is so less crowded that rivers of peace flow all the time. Except for a dog barking or a veg wala calling we are free from traffic stress.

So much so that when mil comes kukku goes to the roof to study as she is a very big disturbing element.
We finally bought him a fibre quilt.. and very costly too 4280.

We also bought two suits for mil from Amartex. She bought a woollen kurti and insisted on a churidaar (ready made) with it (it is black   woollen lower).It will look silly but then you have one life and should enjoy it by looking silly once in a while.  Mummy when you one here I will also buy you gloves from Mussorie.  If I go there  before I come to purulia I will get it from here.

Kukku ' s blanket is very nice. It looks great as it is so soft. I have put a fleece blanket as a bed sheet and it was so warm last night that we could not sleep..

Partha is running around for the passport for his travel to Hong Kong and Macaw. I will go once kukku grows up and can can be less of a pest to his mil which is only when he will be in college. His trip to ITC cost us dearly 27000. And there is Goles fees to think of too.

I am missing baba Badrinath. But we plan to take the trip in April.

So many dreams and so many things in my bucket list. .. I wish I have time to fulfill all wishes.

18 th Nov 2015

In this gym I am doing the same shit for the past few months. I reach here at 11 am
1. Cross trainer for 30 min
2. Treadmill 15 min
3. Step up 30 X 3
4.  The things that Poonam taught me in Gold gym ( abs/squats/ legs)

Also that is the time for the instructors to do their workout. I have asked nicely for a schedule any times but always Gagan says madam " Ek din bas 9 baje a a jao. "

Here in doon also there are great bodies. One is like the man in capt America. I very skinny boy comes but when he opens his jacket his mean muscles sight. I mean when you have hot bodies to work on no one wants to work on aunties.  They show results much faster plus you can make them sweat more and they don't complain.

I don't want him to stand and count like a personal trainer but I just need a schedule. .. what to do on


cardiovascular 30 min                        squats 2 X 15
bicep curls 2 X 15
Then Tuesday.

Today the owner was here and I asked her what I have to do to get a schedule.  She said (shocked) "kya abhi tak nahi mila". Then the trainers had it. A few days back the manager had gone  for physical and was absent there was no one here at 11 for 2 days.

I reached to find a closed gym and after the 2nd day was very angry because when I was on the way I saw Gaganjit going back home and shouted his name out in the road after stopping the car. He pretended that he does not know me. Also I  had called him he did not call me back.I was very pissed.  After that I have barely been making eye contact with him.

After shouting at the manager she made Kavi write up a schedule for 3 days for me and told me to do different things. Not only cross trainer or treadmill. If there is any problem. . She asked me to contact Anurag she gave the ph number.

Thereafter I followed the schedule by Kavi. And saw a fuming Gagan put up  a good show and train others who were there along with me.

Well before leaving I said bye to Gagan who said "madam maine bola tha... main karaonga aapko bolne ki kya zaroorat thi."

  I told him "I wanted schedule aur kissi ko kuch karana nahi hai.. ghee nikalna tha seedhi ungli se nahi nikla to teda karna pada."

Then he asked to see my schedule and I showed it to him.

He said kal 5 min karke aana main aapko bataunga. Like the shit I will... anyway I left.

In Mussorie I bought great mittens for Mil and Goles. They were having fingers till the 2nd digit and after that the fingers were free to write. But there is a cap (you can call it a finger cap) which covers the entire fingers when you are not using them. It cost 350 bucks. And they also have a lining inside.

We were supposed to go to Badrinath on the 21-24. And in the Gym I was asking Lord Narayan. I talk to various Gods many times in a day. I said "God you have given me everything that a person can desire I will ask for one thing that is very important for me. You must make me 80 kgs."

Today I hear that snow has fallen and the roads are closed on 19th and not on the 27th as scheduled. What do you mean God......?????

11 th November 2015

I have applied to another school called DPSG Delhi public School Ghaziabad. . Not associated with DPSG.  They are planning to open a school near Chakrata road and it is very near my house.

I liked it's fill application on line and upload picture and CV. I look like a frog in it but we'll we should try and be happy with what God has given... In my case what I have made of what God has given.

Gupta Aunty has come and she is very fun yo be with. She is also very progressive and loves to talk. Only yesterday I did several mistakes while cooking food because I was busy listening to her... she stands in the kitchen when cooking and talks of many interesting things like the mistakes made by md.  Bin Tuglak. Who changed the capital from Delhi to Agra also she says it will be good when people have laptops instead of copies at least trees will be saved. Such a refreshing change from Mil who only interjects with I don't know these things. She has opinions of almost every thing and that makes for interesting conversations.

Yesterday I made makki atta with mooli parantha.  It was good.  Especially with curd and the mirchi pickle which Aunty has made. She has also told me to make atta laddu with gond  and dry fruits.

She has told many tales of her natis and natnis  who are trials to their parents  too. Recently one of her friend died she is called Anniriddha Singh Aunty.  She was a rani Queen of a small district in Jaipur and as a result was very posh. She was only 62 and too young. They were neighbours and spend many mornings together mummy Aunty and Anniruddha Singh Aunty.  The uncles used to go to office and then they would be together chit chat and gupsgup.  Mummy would sleep in the afternoon and Aunty would wake her by 3 30 after which they would have tea.

Sadly Partha will be in Delhi on his birthday and we will be here on that day.  Thankfully that is one treat filled day that we are missing.

Goles refuses to talk to us and as a result we are having snippets of her life from face book entries. Today it is 9th and already she has withdrawn 4500 from the account. Partha has read a few face book entries and has assumed that Goles is doing work for her classmates. Should I take him seriously... he is also scared of Pusey the cat who asks us for food sometimes. He thinks he will jump on him and scratch his eyes out.

Still it hurts that often the things he thinks of Goles are true

8th January 2015 Purulia

In the past fee days I had acquired free bees of sorts from many quarters
1. Paan from Chapa mama
2. 2 laddoos from jamai ki dukan.
On Tuesday as we were getting bored in the house I went to market with kukku. At 8 pm. He was at loath to walk but I said we will count steps if we cross the limit of 1000 I would let him download a silly game of car racing which he wants desperately.  So he walked and counted the steps sincerely. I fought and made him count 100 steps again but sadly when we reached  Jamai dukan we had completed 950 steps already and Kukku was very happy and pleased as a result we talked to Jamai....
Kukku happily because of the car racing dreams. ... Jamai was happy to talk to Kukku who he remembered in our arms a few days back. He asked about you Tublu  and also Goles.
He asked Kukku if he could come and visit us in Noida and Kukku  told him that he would happily receive him in D doon. As Noida was the home of his sister. Jamai  insisted that Kukku take two laddoos which I had already bought from the shop. I had already got 4 laddoos as Kukku was eyeing them with wet mouth.!@#$&^&/$#.  The greedy boy.

4th Feb 2015

The greatest truth of life comes to me in a flash. ..

As a rule man is a fool....
When it's hot he wants cool
When it is cool he wants hot
  Always wanting what is not

Now that a job is round the corner I am slightly worried about my free time removal.  Really God has his hands full with my chu chu. Always I am a big chu chu. God I am sorry for being such a problem kid.. I said so in the temple yesterday while reading Hanuman Chalisa.  Of course there is no surety.

1. the other girl is young plus
2.she us a graduate from Gargi also
3.her status is permanent residency still.

They told in the end that they are thinking of  placeing me in place of Smriti  ma'am if they select me. But all was good. I am only worried about my super confident attitude which might appear as smug and over confidence . TOO BAD . I have tried working on it too.. but all in vain. I talked to the owners about out

1.  touchscreen smart board and that we are now shifting to tata edge as we are not happy with that (Another software like educomp. . In which I am very good)... there I go again.

2. That there is no power problem as they have a great power backup (DPS Indore).

3. I also said our school was so huge that we hardly knew the primary teachers.

All these are true but in retrospect the atmosphere became slightly chilly after that. I did not mean... that they are non software savy. Have poor power backup and have a small school. Oh dear I just hop Gunmeet ma'am's jack pays up.

A new tenant have come behind us husband wife and child. They are nice and I want to play with the child who happens to be a cutie pie (free with flying Kissess).  But I am afraid how things will work out later and they will leave me to baby sit the kid and go off to see movies.

I told Goles about the DPS Noida she said... There are many pros and cons and you may think it is all good but you may not like it either. (I could see her conflict. ...her new found freedom was slipping away)  I told her that mamoni also wants to stay with us. She said.. are you sure??? You want to take such a big step. What about baba what does he say?.

I must say her psychology skill are paying off very well. She did not make me resentful but she also pointed out the problems that I may have and at the same time made me feel that she was not happy about it. She is a smart girl. I must say.

Well let me pray that the owners did not take offence at my attitude.. and reinstall me a working position.

The girl or rather lady who stays in front Goyal Aunty .. If you remember I told you about a 53 year old girl who is mentally and physically challenged fell out of bed and hurt her thigh... she is unable to sit in the sun anymore and though the mom and the physiotherapist checked that there is no fracture. .. she yells in pain during her physiotherapy. I feel very bad for Goyal Aunty. . Also her daughter whose name is Neelu. Two days back before putting the pan for piss Goyal Aunty moved a bit to put the heater in the proper position when Neelu pissed on the sheets it self. Goyal Aunty was very upset when she talked of it to me the other day.

I have discovered they joy of subway surfing a game for the phone and also temple run. I had uninstalled it as Goles was addicted to it but I regret it now.  Kukku told me that they had unlocked many players ... no wonder they were both crying when I had uninstalled it. I feel like crying myself now. My score is very less I have been able to unlock only Tasha, Talbot and Fresca.

Kukku in his computer gabe GTA 4 had a date with a girl and  I helped him choose his outfit. The girlfriend generated by the computer did not like it much. It was good that Nico (Kukku's pseudonym) killed her soon thereafter.

I have also uploaded the game on Khan Aunty,'s phone. It is Dios. .. and she loves it so  much that she plans to buy a tablet with better memory so that she can play better.

Yesterday uncle told me that "you are spoiling her "... I replied. ... "uncle you have golf what does Aunty have?"

On that happy NOTE 4... Oh dear  note Let me end.

Rather weighty this 9th Feb 2015

Yesterday a congress minister died in UK and it is 3 days leave Kukku has .. and I have missed 2 days of gym namely Saturday and Monday. 

It depresses me no end that u am perpetually starving and going to the gym yet I can't stop myself from eating horrible stuff.. like the last cream biscuit to empty the biscuit jar ..or try the new hide and seek bourbon biscuit.  REALLY....How am I supposed to loose weight is totally beyond me.

In my gym the new guy has come and tells me repeatedly... Aapko strength na karo ..... cardio karo.. A aapke liye wo hi theek hai... pehle weight loose hoga aur phir muscle mass bade ga to theek hai.

Sumit was going for preparing for UK sub inspector he smartly made my day of fees payment on the 27th Feb as I had informed them that I will go to Kolkata in December and paid for 3 months Nov. ..Dec. ..Jan. .but I was in Kolkata in Jan as a result he extended my 3 month pd before leaving.  Smart Sumit.

Whay is right ??? gym instructor that people who have such great weight should do cardio and no strength?? Because in Gold there was too much stress on muscle building. .

PARTHA has gone for a three day tour Monday to Wednesday and I have to wake early to make Kukku ready for school. .. another stress... Neeru has gone for the wedding to clement town and she says she will stay there for 3 days so Neeru and Partha will come back together. I mean on the same day.

Yesterday Partha got to know of a doctor who wants to rent our house. So he wants to clean it up and make the top story and get it properly maintained so that we can ask for a 10000 rent at least.

Well he asked mummy to show that she has sold the house to him so that he can get a loan against that and make a top story as he has the people and resources now, but Mil was totally against it and told him not to be silly which made him resentful... well life is like that.. that is another weighty issue between mother and son.

On Kukku's shoulder rests the weight if good performance. Yesterday I  spoke to Sunita Bhabi who has been staying in Kota for the past 3 years now as Gudiya took a break of 1 yr as she did not want to do dental. Last year she qualified for dental but wanted medical.

It is a big weight on her poor shoulders and I feel for her. I hope she manages her medical somewhere. Sunita bhabi have given Dehradun as their centre as we stay in doon.

Naughty kids Rule

Naughty kids rule and that is the truth.  A few months back two kids came to meet their ex teachers in school and one was an engineering student (PERFORMER KID) and another one was the shit naughty boy he was also BCom..

1. He had placed a play toy doodie on the staff room desk with appropriate smell and watched in glee all the teacher's come out with closed nostrils. Yellow card

2. He had hidden George sirs shoes during a practice and he had to drive home without shows that day. They got it on the staff room table the next day with apology note from the boy. Yellow card

3. During Holi he had placed mug of water on the class room door so that when the teacher came in she was drenched.

Guess who got more love hugs and kisses. It was the naughty boy. We still talk of him . The  the 1st day I joined school. He had stopped Kukku from going out if the bus and I had compained to vice principal ma'am about it as Kukku was complaining. It turned out to be a mares nest as Kukku was kicking another classmate and playing WWE in the bus itself for a long time.

He is a head taller than me and before coming to Dehradun I saw him behimd the mac Donalds  counter and was soooo pleased to see him.

I am glad Rohan is naughty.. so was Goes and so was Kukku.  It is that part of their childhood that I miss the most.

Trip to Amity.... Holi. ... Goles

A few days that Goles had come home was a tech free week. The following things happened. They were not necessarily connected.

1. Manoj left our house for good and we got new tenants.  Guess who they are? ? Two ayurveda doctors who run a fat loss centre. They have a pact signed with an American company which produces nutrients to be mixed with water and drunk. Partha had gone to hand over the keys to them and they fed Partha and Umesh bhaiya what was "breakfast". A glass of water with nutrients.

Umesh bhaiya has published published a poem book called Spandan. Which is full of "haiku". These poems are 3 lines long. Each line has an independent meaning but together they make full meaning. He wants us to come and listen to his book release. On 22nd March. But Kukku has his exams.

Their daughter is in the teen scream stage and the parents especially the mom are very upset.  RADHIKA the daughter stays in the bathroom for a long time.. she argues ... she screams at her mother all the time

Partha had gone this Sunday 9th to hand over the keys and had a glass of breakfast. Partha also talked to the contractor about denting and painting and a few more corrections. Termites have been playing havoc in our house as bapi is no longer there.  He used to put drops of some poison to kill them. 1.5 lac.

2. Kukku's final exams began. He is having it from the 10th to the 24th as a result he won't be able to go for the book release. It is sad. As we would have had fun.

Also Goles had come here for holi and we had great deal of fun. But we had booked my reservation to go with Goles in january to go to her hostel. As a result we prepared the syllabus of kukku well in advance so that he could study on his own as he had his test in that time only.

3. Holi. ... we stay with the golden oldies who instead of enjoying colours of holi were more keen to be safe from colour allergy and swine flu. However all 3 of us played on the roof. We had a pickari.. which was held by the sniper. And 3 balloons were used as missiles. Kukku and Goles who had filled them up painstakingly was sad to see them go do soon. He called them the
1. Successful balloons.  Anyone who has filled water in balloons knows what it means... but he has used the term for the 1st time.
2. Innocent balloons when we were trying to burst them.
3. Sad balloons which no one wanted as they were too small. And we're selected for the end for hitting purposes. Also they refused to burst. We had to use force to cracking them. I loved these adjectives.

3.Gym Valentine.  My gym Valentine is very fond of me and calls me daily she did call me also when I was in Delhi and as a result I have someone to go with these days.

4. Delhi trip:- Goles and I left for her hostel on the 9th evening when Partha came back from hdwar. We went in Mussorie  express and had adjoining middle berths. We were talking and discussing the best ways to get Jeans for Goles. We decided on lajpat Nagar which had All. We did not go there but one man (lb under Goles) told us to get off at Old Delhi and catch the metro to Lajpat Nagar.  He said he could not help overhearing our conversation and that his friends daughter is also in Amity. She turned out to be Goles classmate. He made us talk to Pihu also.
Then we slept. In the morning I requested Goles to go to mohan singh place in CP. As there are cheap and best jeans. Well so she agreed and he told us the way to there also. I got up. Brushed and pissed. Woke up Giles and we're ready and got off . Sadly I had on my sandals and not shoes they would have helped walking. Anyway. We took tickets for metro. The man got off with us and after directing us melted in the crowd. He had come like the pole star and showed us the way. In the train it was sooooo crowded that I did not get up. We had luggage  and 2 bags. We went out of the station (old Delhi metro station). And had to walk a lot. There were no auto no buses and no rickshaws were willing to take us to Mohan Singh place. Finally again in the old Delhi station we tool a taxi and that took us to Mohan Singh place.250 bucks.

I went to Hanuman mandir. Then we saw a jeans shop open and the man took Goles measurement. He asked us to be there by 1 pm. That time it was 10 30 am.

We went to ICH and had rock hard idlis. .insipid sambar. . Strong coffee. The ambiance was good though a few students... a few kids of a club came to discuss a facility.

There was wind blowing through our hair. Gentle sunlight caressed our  cold skin. Camiraderoe and frolic set our hearts at peace. It was good.

There after we went down. Breakfast had created pressure.  The bangis downstairs were  cleaning the loos. . I saw a hygienic loo... not 5 star stuff.. but had running water I did my stuff and urged Goles to do it to. She had a skin tight jeans on and had to do mean acrobatics.
1. Remove one leg from Jean.
3.Do the stuff..
4. put the leg back in.

It was no easy feat.. as our sizes are no secret and public loos...but she did it and we were well fed and fresh.

We did a lot of windows shopping. Goles went to Mark and Spencer to try on bras. She did... but liked none.. after which we wandered lonely as a cloud. It was very nice. I had the "dil dhoondta hai phir wohi. ..." moment and Goles saw CP a through my eyes. We had a very great time and spend not a cent.

At 1 15 the man called us and we went to collect the jeans. They were done beautifully and also had the ":levi's" label!!!!

I SALUTE THE PUNJABis. Goles was also pleasantly surprised.  3000 for 3 pairs of jeans. We would have got only 1 in All for 3000.

We had lunch at Mac Donalds and there I was greeted with a squeeling girl  .. who said ma'aaaaam. Another VDJS girl called Kanika. She greeted me so happily and made her friend meet me. I was very touched.  She us now in South EX designing kitchen for a Germany company. She was a very average girl. That makes me believe there is a place for everyone in this world we should be patient enough to find it. I said I was so proud of her. She was lookin good ... which she was.

We then talked to Vinni didi who said her nanad had come  we can come and we will adjust. But I sensed stress in her tone and Goles suggested we could ask Mr. Doval to allow me to stay in the guest room there.

We left for Amity. GOLES submitted her gate pass. I talked to her teachers. They said she is a great girl but should stay with her type of people. She is much smarter than the gang she goes around with.

GOLES  told me that in their gang one boy is not talking to her in particular.... and all her gang has shifted to Kishore's side... the adversary. ... She had asked him herself and asked many other to ask him what the matter was but he did not tell.  He says there is no matter but he does not involve her and all the gang though they talk to her they prefer the company of Kishore. Naturally she is very hurt. Also her fat.. I felt very bad for her.

Last time I was there kishore Amit Alex Nishant and Malini were with us constantly. But I was very happy when we did encounter them I was at the ATM. She asked all to come and say hello to me but Kishore.... I felt tears of happiness. These are the lessons that hostel teaches us.....I was feeling bad for her and suddenly I felt bad for Kishore. Poor boy to be publicly ignored like that !!!!

We spoke to MR DOVAL AND used strong terms like abla nari. .. who said I could use the guest room for a day for 2000 bucks. I was shocked. Then he said. If you don't mind sharing the washroom you can use another room 500 bucks..I okay ed.  It was as good as the 2000 Rs room as there were no one sharing with me. I felt like the dancing girl of Trivago ad.

Goles and I decided to freshen up and meet again in one hour. We could not go to each others room... but by 7 we met up and walked here and there. We had dinner at the mess beneath D Block. There I met another girl Aastha who had cleared CA and was in the 2nd year MA Finance. My ex student from VDJS.
Another squealing session ensured. I feel blessed at times like that.

I got her 1 month at  persona the Amity Gym. But she is intimidated as there are guys and girls with hot bodies doing work out all the time. She says she will go there though. Also she has said she  has eaten good food today. We stayed together till 10 pm. And walked and walked.  My cardio gave me a high 5 for walking 18600 steps.  I walk like this only but today I had my phone with me.

In the morning we met up by 9 15. She had called her teachers and persuaded to give her proxy as she was having a last few moments with me. Her teacher allowed. So we stayed together till 10 am. She left me at gate 4. I felt sad to see her go.. but hostel is good for her she is tougher and stronger than before. I hope she looses weight as well.

I took shared auto till golf course Noida. There after called pickles from Patel Nagar. She said to come in rickshaw as Pritha was about to come. I came and saw that there was sprite... sweets.... for snacks.
Lunch was ...rice fish daal chutney (2 types ) spring onion veg. Really poor Picklu must have been cooking from the time she heard I was coming. After lunch I took rickshaw and boarded metro and came to station amd caught the train with 40 min to go.